Stay part of each Today, 8:00 pm other’s day.

We’re in private testing with a small group right now. Everyone on the waitlist gets an invite first, in the order they joined, and the App Store release follows once the first pairs have lived with it for a while. You’ll get one email from us the day your invite is ready, and nothing before that.

iPhone only for now, on iOS 17 and up, because the whole point is the Home Screen widgets and those are built on Apple’s widget system. If your person is on Android, join the waitlist anyway: it tells us how many pairs are waiting on that, and you’ll hear from us first when it changes.

Writing notes, sending nudges and your days-together widget are free for as long as you use Pakkam. Moods, photos and your history together are Pakkam Plus — and your first week of it is free, from the App Store, once the two of you connect. One subscription covers both of you, never two.

We’ll tell everyone on the waitlist the price before it goes live.

No, and not because we promise not to. Your two phones agree on a secret key between themselves when you pair, and everything you write is encrypted with that key before it leaves your phone. What reaches our servers is scrambled text we have no key for. The only way to read a note is to be one of the two phones it was written for.

It lives on Cloudflare, in encrypted form, so a note you leave at 8 pm can still reach your person’s Home Screen when your phone is off or out of signal. We store your Apple sign-in, the city you picked, a push token for notifications, and the encrypted blob. Your name, your mood and your notes are only ever readable on the two phones that hold the key.

Tap Unpair and your half is deleted from our side right away, along with the pair itself. Delete the app and the copy on your phone goes with it. Your person keeps their own half until they unpair too; we can’t delete it for them, because we can’t read it. The full details are in the privacy policy.